Child Of Venus With Child Of Venus
You and your fellow Child Of Venus are simpatico. You both understand the need for symmetry and will immediately make the necessary adjustments so that yours is a seamless partnership. The only thing you have to watch out for is the Venusian habit of avoiding anything unpleasant. Since neither of you will bring it up, you can wind up supporting each other’s tendency to procrastinate or sweep matters under the rug. Yet you are both fair listeners, so should one of you broach an unappealing topic, the other will make a point of hearing you out, and then thank you afterward.
One of you does the courting while the other one is always being courted. It’s tempting to slip into these prefab roles, but introduce surprise twists from time to time. Not only will you keep your love interest guessing, but it will also be fun to see what he or she comes up with.
You and your Venus mate need to know that you’re married to the most attractive person in the room. You two maintain your youth and vitality long after other couples have resigned themselves to the laws of gravity. However, if you ever feel that your mate is taking you for granted, then just start flirting with someone else. That will get his or her attention pronto.
Not all Venus parents want to fool people into thinking you’re siblings. Most are quite comfortable with being introduced as your mom or dad. Indeed your Venus parent has cultivated that sophisticated look that comes with age. The gray hair lends Dad a dignified air; the deeper voice makes Mom sound sultry. Better watch it. Or your Venus parent will wind up turning all the heads in the room.
The easy part about raising a Venus child is that you’re familiar with all the tricks. You pulled most of them yourself. You’re immune to the coaxing, cajoling, and staged snits. What’s difficult is playing the heavy. Every child needs to learn the word no, especially a Venus kid. Without it your child will get used to things coming easily and will focus more on getting others to do for him or her. Serf-sufficiency begins with being thrown back on your own resources.
Either you fought since day one, or you are best friends. If you two are always arguing, it’s best to avoid each other’s company. Chances are you don’t even harbor any ill will; it’s just that if one of you says something’s black, the other will insist it’s white. If best friends, then people light up when you two enter a room. You playoff each other’s humor and charm and delight everyone within reach.
Your friendship may have developed out of a business association that still continues to this day. As a Child Of Venus you understand the importance of hooking up with the right people, as does your friend. You both bring something to the relationship that the other doesn’t have.
Although a Venus enemy can be positively diabolical about getting his or her way, this same person can turn around and be generous just as quickly. Children of Venus believe in keeping friends close, but enemies closer.
Never assume that things are peachy keen with a Venus boss. This person can tell you you’re doing a fine job and then fire you the next day. The cloak-and-dagger tactics aren’t meant to be malicious; they’re simply indicative of how much this person hates confrontation. Always keep the line of communication open with your boss and make him or her feel comfortable about giving you feedback.
Venus is the Planet of symmetry and will automatically seek its counterpart. Dissatisfaction with your colleague could actually make you more disciplined and expert in your work, whereas a chummy relationship may lead to goofing off all day.