Child Of Uranus With Child Of Saturn
A Child Of Saturn has the other half of the equation you’re looking for. You may be a font of brilliant ideas, but it’s a Child Of Saturn who can make them happen. Sometimes you’ll be on opposite poles and other times you’ll be in perfect agreement. Though a Child Of Saturn can be a harsh critic, this person is also your biggest fan.
Usually you dazzle paramours with an astonishing fact or brilliant insight. But you’ll have to work harder than that with your Saturn love interest, especially since he or she is at least as well read as you and will respond by testing your knowledge. The key to your heart is through your mind, so it could be love at first sight. It also doesn’t hurt that this person knows how to dress and is well connected. This appeals to your elitist side.
You know you can be a handful. At times high-strung and temperamental, you can always rely on you Saturn mate to ground you. This person takes you seriously, but he or she won’t indulge you. This is important because sometimes you’ll get into a mode where you’re just going to say or do everything opposite. But knowing that you’ve got such a strong anchor makes you feel more secure than if you had bundles of money in the bank. Although considering your Saturn mate’s industriousness, that expectation isn’t so far-fetched.
The reason you question authority as much as you do is because you have a strong idea of what it should be. Your Saturn parent has always known this and wisely adopted a low profile when you switched from showing respect to looking for idols to topple. Nevertheless your mom or dad would have insisted that you’re going to knock something off its perch, then be prepared to replace it with something as good if not better; otherwise keep your opinions to yourself.
It won’t be easy to accept how shy your Saturn kid can be, especially given your ability to fraternize with all types. But give it time. Children of Saturn need to find their place in the social milieu before they feel comfortable. Introducing the little one to sports, dance, or music will help. Not only will he or she respond positively to learning a discipline, but talent also speaks more easily than words.
It doesn’t matter how bossy, insensitive, or stuffy your Saturn sibling is, chances are you’re contributing just as much to the one-upmanship. You both need to have the last word, and there’s no limit to how far you’ll go to get it.
Few people can get you to laugh at yourself. Your Saturn friend knows how to poke fun but not leave you feeling foolish. This is also the same person who will encourage you to pursue something you consider far-fetched or absurd. Your Saturn friend takes your aspirations more seriously than you do at times.
Chances are you’re just on the opposite sides of a debate. If you respect your Saturn adversary’s position then he or she will respect yours.
If you’re true blue, your Saturn boss will recognize it and invite you to become part of his or her inner circle. If not, then you’ll never get past a certain point. If this continues to mystify you and you really want to know the reason, then your boss will tell you if you ask. But then be prepared to hear about some truths you are unwilling to admit to yourself.
There are two types of Saturn colleagues, innovator and lackey. If you’re lucky to be working with an innovator, then this person will not only raise your standards, but will also show you how to reach them. If you’re stuck with the second type, see if you can’t transfer somewhere else.