Child Of The Moon With Child Of Venus
A Child Of Venus believes there are two sides to every story. This is different from your sympathetic approach to life. You often put yourself in someone else’s shoes, asking yourself how you would feel if you were faced with a similar situation. Children of Venus put their emotions aside so that they can get a more balanced view of matters. You can learn a lot about people and the way they relate by being with a Child Of Venus.
Courtship is very important to Children of Venus. It’s how they decide if they want you in their lives or not. It may feel a little awkward having to “audition” for the role of paramour, but it’s better than rehashing your family history yet again or talking about your plans for the future. The one thing you’ll need to get used to is hearing all about your Venus lover’s exes. They’re still friends.
Your Venus mate wants to be out and about, making valuable professional or social contacts. At first you may be reluctant to follow along, as a Child Of The Moon, you’re ready to close up shop around 7 P.M.- but over time you’ll come to appreciate these impromptu soirées.
You may not have shared your Venus parent’s preoccupation with appearances when you were growing up (you wanted to be comfortable, not chic), but you’ll eventually come to realize what he or she was getting at. As a Child Of The Moon, you have a strong inner life. You take things personally and agonize over job interviews and dates. Your Venus parent probably taught you that if you focused more on making the right impression, then you wouldn’t have to worry so much about credentials or proving yourself.
Good luck keeping up with your Venus Child’s ever-changing roster of friends. Play dates who appear one week may be passé the next. But what looks capricious is actually very well thought out. Children of Venus start networking early. Considering that this is just kindergarten, you can imagine what high school will be like.
Venus siblings act as if they don’t know you in public, but they will confide everything in private. This can be a bit off-putting, but once you realize how your brother or sister regards these as two entirely separate spheres, then you won’t mind it so much. Watch your back if you happen to make the acquaintance of someone who’s attractive or well-to-do. A Venus sibling can be very competitive when it comes to love and money.
This is the person you turn to for coaching on how to ask for a raise, what to order on your first date, or where the most desirable neighborhood is. Conversely, a Venus friend will come to rely on your advice and support. It may never cease to amaze you how your Venus friend can be so naive about people’s psychologies, but then that’s why you’re friends. You each add to the other’s perspective.
You don’t really have anything to fear from a Venus enemy. Venus makes love, not war. The only thing to watch out for is if you both have your eyes set on the same prize. This person is just as driven as you and twice as sneaky.
Expect to do a lot of grunt work while getting little credit for it. A Child Of Venus sees his or her job as being out in the field making deals, generating contacts, and planting the seeds for future business. A Venus boss will then leave it up to others to do the followup calls or haggle over the fine print.
Either this will be the most brilliant person you’ve ever hooked up with or dead weight. If your Venus colleague is a dud, refuse to help out with even the simplest task. It may seem harsh, but don’t give an inch or this person will take a mile.