Child Of The Moon With Child Of The Sun
You are drawn to this person’s dynamism and fire. A Child Of The Sun positively radiates self?confidence. Inevitably some of that will rub off on you just by hanging out with this person. You know that the two of you would make a terrific team, but it’s clear that a Child Of The Sun needs to feel that he or she comes first. You don’t mind that, because you know how to get your way by slipping in a subtle hint or a whispered suggestion.
Love at first sight. But you still have to decide whether getting serious about this person is really worth it. As a Child Of The Moon, you have natural mothering instincts, even if you’re a man. And seeing as The Sun rules youth and childhood, you could wind up with an overgrown Peter Pan or Heidi if you’re not careful.
It’s very easy to slip into cliches. You’re the quiet Rock of Gibraltar while your other half is the showy entertainer. But just because certain roles come easily doesn’t mean you have to typecast yourself. If you can find ways to play against type, then your Solar mate will follow your lead. Switching back and forth keeps your partnership fresh and alive.
You may have felt more like the parent than the child. Although Solar parents always take their job seriously, they lack a certain follow-through, especially when it comes to the less glamorous aspects being a mom or dad. As a Child Of The Moon, you would have spotted what was missing right away and naturally filled in, perhaps even taking over certain chores like doing the laundry or shopping.
A Child Of The Sun is the epitome of youthful innocence and humor. You never tire of the kid’s antics and will probably accumulate enough video footage to open your own library. But things can get tense your child grows older, especially if the child is the same sex as you. Remember: adolescence won’t last forever.
You’ve always been close. And in many ways, your Solar sibling looked up to you, even if you were younger. This bond continues into adulthood. You can always turn to this Child Of The Sun for financial advice or to take the kids off your hands for the evening.
Children of The Sun see themselves as the animating spirit in everyone’s lives. They’ll happily grace you with their observations. Share a problem or a quandary and a Child Of The Sun will tell you what he or she would do in your position.
Solar Children don’t go out of their way to be nasty unless there’s good reason for it. And oftentimes the reason is because their feelings have been hurt. A little time spent away from the arena, maybe invite this person out for a walk or a drink, usually results in getting to the bottom of the problem.
You two are like a comedy team. Your Solar boss will get all blustery and bark commands while you stand behind him or her with arms akimbo, rolling your eyes and shaking your head. In truth, your boss knows how much time you spend doing damage control and even enjoys your wisecracks. This person also relies on you heavily for off-the-record advice.
Solar Children don’t always take the initiative, so be prepared to give some direction. If your Solar colleague is a guy, you’ll have to prod him every step of the way. He’s always convinced he’s finished when you think he’s only just begun. If your colleague is a gal, understand that once she’s gotten an idea in her head it’s almost impossible to get her to adopt another approach. Introduce your idea as an extension of hers, even if you know it’s a stretch.