Child Of The Moon With Child Of The Moon
It’s a relief not to have to spell everything out. You can rest assured that a fellow Child Of The Moon gets you on your level. You can make all the elliptical remarks you want and this person will know exactly what you mean. The only thing to watch out for is that you can take on the other’s mood without knowing it, leaving you wondering if that’s really your funk you’re in or somebody else’s?
Since you are both accustomed to looking after the emotional needs of others, you may be bashful about expressing your feelings. Indeed the fact that you can predict what your Moon date is going to do next could make you self-conscious. Nevertheless you come from separate backgrounds and each have your own history. Enjoy getting to know the differences.
As Children of The Moon, you go through phases. But you don’t necessarily go through your phases at the same time. For instance, your mate may be in a “full moon” phase: happy that matters are coming to fruition and getting ready to wind down, while you may be in a “new moon” phase, which is gung-ho and enthusiastic about getting a project or venture up off the ground. If you allow for a difference in clocks and rhythms, you’ll always be there for each other, even if you’re not reading from the same page.
This is one of the most important people in your life. You two have always had more of a kinship than parent/child relationship. Your roles are very fluid. In the course of a conversation you can move from the casualness of friends to the intimacy of siblings to the objectivity of business partners. This is one of the few people you’ll accept criticism from, because you know it’s based on something that your Lunar parent is also struggling to improve.
Your Lunar child brings out all of your protective instincts, whether or not this kid actually needs such close supervision. It’s important to curb these tendencies. Not only because you’ll worry yourself sick if you don’t, but also because you want this child to be able to stand up on his or her own two feet one day. Moon Children are extremely resilient.
The two of you have always been, and always will be, close. The only bumpy period is when one you starts dating or gets married. You don’t like having to share your Moon sibling with anyone. After a while you will grudgingly accept this new face into the fold.
You run everything by each other, from decisions about your marriage to whether or not you want to switch laundry detergents. The only thing you want to guard against is becoming too dependent on the person’s feedback. Think for yourself and you’ll keep the friendship hearty. You don’t want to wind up recycling each other’s advice.
Since the dispute probably has to do with one of you horning in on the other’s turf, you’ll have to determine how far you’re willing to go. If you’re the one overstepping your bounds, then it probably isn’t worth it. However if you’re defending what’s rightfully yours, then be prepared to put up a fight to the end.
Even if you work at a corporation, it will still have the feel of a mom-and-pop store. That’s because you Moon boss only wants to work with people who truly care about the product. However that same homey feeling can also bring some family dysfunction along with it. It’s up to you to be professional.
Sometimes the moods get in the way of work. You may get frustrated when your Moon colleague decides to be in a snit. It isn’t easy to deliberately turn a blind eye, but it might be necessary if you want this person to get with the program.