Child Of Saturn With Child Of Venus
Whether it’s climbing the ladder of success, scaling the social register, or putting the finishing touches on a project or bid a Child of Venus can help you get to the next level. You work very hard and like to show off the blood, sweat, and tears. A Child of Venus knows you’ll win people’s hearts and admiration by using a softer touch. If you understate your accomplishments then people will not only be impressed with your achievements, but they’ll also think you’ve got class, too.
You find this person enthralling, which is why you’ll scurry in the opposite direction. But don’t worry. Children of Venus don’t bite, nor will they marry you for your money or lead you on before dumping you unceremoniously. The best way to flatter your Venus love interest is to let yourself be seduced. But play a little hard to get. You don’t want to make it too easy.
Your Venus mate will insist that every decision be made together. Admittedly there will be times when your mate forces your hand by going out and buying something and pretending that he or she thought you wanted it; but for the most part everything is discussed and priced out beforehand. This will include your private life as well. Accustomed to being by yourself, you naturally treat your business like it’s your business. Nothing could be more opposite from your Venus mate’s way of thinking. At first you might feel self-conscious (not to mention awkward) about trotting out every single decision for review, but once you get into it you’ll enjoy discussing the finer points of everything, from property values to toilet paper.
It’s your Venus parent who taught you that one beautifully tailored suit was better than three cheap ones. And it’s made all the difference. Given your druthers, you’d press your nose to the grindstone and just forge ahead. As a Child of Saturn you believe that hard work should pay off in the end. Thank goodness your Venus parent knows better, and it’s this person you have to thank for lifting your sights. Ambition will only take you so far. After that, it’s all finesse.
Venus Children aim to please and will urge you to tell them what you would like. Since you’re a perfectionist and can always find something wrong, you could wind up sending the wrong message if you’re not careful. Make a point of praising your Venus Child and, if you see room for improvement, wait to introduce it another time. That way your kid won’t associate improvement with approval and will naturally seek to make things better without feeling as if your affection depends on it.
You were probably very critical of your Venus sibling’s “agreeable” nature when you were younger, but with time you’ve come to appreciate your brother’s or sister’s talent for networking. You also understand that agreeable doesn’t necessarily mean pushover. Much of your knowledge of people and politics is a result of watching your Venus sibling in action.
You have similar tastes yet rarely buy the same thing, which means you’ll always admire (and secretly covet) what the other has. Venus friends always have a light touch, which is nice, considering how serious many of your other friendships can be.
Not a harsh word will be exchanged. You will both simply avoid each other’s company.
You usually don’t like working for people, but a Venus boss is different. That’s because this person recognizes a good thing when he or she sees it and won’t spare the expenses. Your Venus boss will also praise your talents to the skies. Although you profess otherwise, you’ll secretly eat up every word.
Children of Venus are experts at getting others to do their work for them. You don’t mind helping them if your Venus colleague happens to be good-looking or especially charming. Otherwise, you’ll leave the pile of papers right where they are.