Child Of Saturn With Child Of Mars
Like you, a Child of Mars believes that challenges build character. Neither of you takes the easy way out or will back down from a fight. Since a Child of Mars spends more time wrestling with an opponent (whereas you wrestle more with your conscience), you’ll find this person’s approach to life to be exciting and invigorating. It’s blessedly free of soul’searching. But expect to be on call to pull this person’s fat out of the fire. Children of Mars love to push the envelope.
Children of Mars are wonderfully straightforward. However you may find this person’s attitude toward dating to be a little too casual or even candid. But don’t believe the swagger. That’s just there for show. Mars love interests have lots of rough edges. That’s why they need someone like you to give them that spit and polish.
The more you put on the brakes, the more your Mars mate floors the accelerator and vice versa. There are times when this is a real turn on, but there are times when it annoys you to no end. You should remember that this is why you two hooked up in the first place. You want someone to push you, and your Mars mate wants someone who will control and direct. You’re both evenly matched and equally fixed on doing things your way. If soldiers and athletes can get it together to work as a unit, so can you.
Your Mars parent probably saw you as being too slow or too careful and, in typical Mars fashion, tried to provoke you into doing things faster by being curt or “in your face.” Nothing could be more counterproductive for a Saturn Child. Nevertheless your mom or dad really does want the best for you, but you may still have to keep him or her on a short leash.
The most valuable lesson you can teach your Mars kid is to finish what he or she starts. These little ones have no problem with getting something up and running. They’re ambitious, determined, and even well organized, at first. But Mars, like Mercury, is a Planet of motion. Once the momentum fades, so does the interest. Mars kids are receptive to discipline. Show your kid that it’s only when you get past the initial stage that the real contest begins and he or she will have no problem going the distance.
You may complain about your Mars sibling constantly, but the moment others chime in, you’ll tell them off. You are very protective of your brother or sister, even if you think this person’s making a mess of his or her life. Obviously your feelings are mixed, but like anything connected to Mars, they’re strong.
Though your Mars friend always gives the impression of being unbreakable, you know how much that has cost. It takes a tough cookie to recognize a tough cookie. You’re one of the few people that this person can unwind with, and your Mars friend appreciates it.
It’s fire and ice when you two go at it. Though you ultimately have more lasting power, it’s really not a battle worth fighting. A Mars enemy would much rather join you than try to beat you.
A Mars boss is always dynamic and inspiring. Working for this person, you feel like you’re ready to take on the world. But at some point decisions will need to be made that aren’t so cut anddry, and this is where your Mars boss will prove if he or she has what it takes. If this person is too reckless, then chances are your Mars boss will no longer be boss.
Children of Mars can’t help but be competitive. Throw your colleague off the scent by acting as if you’re interested in something else and this person will immediately chase after it, leaving you free to pursue what you really want.