Child Of Pluto With Child Of The Moon
Children of the Moon put their faith in providence. They take the hard times with the good and trust that everything will work out in the end. Like the Moon, which has always been associated with cycles, Lunar types instinctually know prospects that look dismal one day can rally the next. Hang out with a Child of the Moon and you’ll ease up on that all-or-nothing approach.
The attraction is unmistakable and it’s clear you enjoy each other, but the deciding factor will be in how you negotiate your contrasting dispositions. Your Lunar love interest is looking for something comfortable, whereas you’re looking for someone who can deal with your agony/ecstasy temperament. This requires a subtle kind of understanding which isn’t always easy, given that you can both be so sensitive. There will be times when you have to rein in those emotional extremes and times when your Lunar love interest will have to ease up on being the buffer.
Your “take no prisoners” approach won’t fly with your Lunar mate. And given your Plutonian tendency to act out first and ask questions later, you’ll be glad your partner has the wherewithal to keep you in check. But don’t expect an outright confrontation. Your mate knows you too well. Whether it’s making sure you’re sitting cozily by the fire before hitting you with some sobering news or canceling your credit cards if you refuse to live within a budget, your mate will bring you into line. It’s your Lunar mate who introduces those moments of reflection that often keep you from doing something you’ll regret.
You’ve gone through some dramatic phases with your Lunar parent. When you were young, you worshipped the ground she or he walked on, soaking up every word of this person’s philosophy. But after living on your own, you discovered how out-of-date many of these precepts were. This may have led you to look upon your Lunar mom or dad as hopelessly naive. But as time passes, you’ll find that there’s more than just a grain of truth to what your Lunar parent has to say. It may not always be apparent, but there’s a consistency to the logic
Your Lunar kid brings out all your nurturing instincts. You will be doting, solicitous, and overly protective. Trust that what looks so timid and vulnerable in childhood will strengthen and firm up with age. The best thing you can teach your little Moon is to express what’s going on rather than to bottle it up inside.
You will always be in each other’s corner. When your Lunar sibling is doubtful, you’re encouraging; if you’re feeling overwhelmed, your sibling is comforting. Also, if something sounds suspicious or like it’s a bit of a stretch, neither of you will hesitate to say so.
It takes forever to get your Lunar friend to divulge the juicy stuff. But after enough coaxing and prodding, you’ll ferret it out. Your Lunar friend never disappoints. Just when you think you’ve heard it all, this person finds a way to outdo himself or herself.
Few people can make you feel so ashamed for being beastly, even if you’re in the right! Guilt trips are your Lunar enemy’s most effective weapon.
If you’re content to mosey along at a relaxed pace, then a Child of the Moon is the boss for you. This person will never push. But if you’ve got mountains to climb and ambitions to realize, then hook up with someone else, because this person is as slow as molasses.
You could be getting ready to make a big pitch and this person will fret about whether his tie’s on right or if she remembered to leave a note for the cleaning lady. Don’t sweat it. Your colleague is right there with you. This is just his or her way of expressing nerves.