Child Of Pluto With Child Of Pluto
Children of Pluto tend to avoid one another because of a fear that people as intense as yourselves shouldn’t be left alone in the same room. Yet nothing could be further from the truth. Not only will another Child of Pluto totally get where you’re coming from, but the nuances are so different that it’s intriguing to see so much of yourself recast in the context of someone else’s life.
This energy works best with young couples. That’s because neither of you has really come into your own yet, so you won’t be so uptight about who’s in the driver’s seat. Indeed you’ll enjoy passing the reins back and forth. If you meet when you’re more established (midthirties or later), then you’ll need to take things slowly and give each other the benefit of the doubt. You’ll both be wondering why the other never married or what’s the real reason behind the divorce.
This is one of the strongest bonds that could exist between two people. However there will be many rough periods when you’ll come close to calling it quits. You may have both been born under the Planet of ordeals and the transformations that arise from them, but that doesn’t mean you’ll undergo them at the same time. Yet no matter what, you’ll stick together through thick and thin and slog your way through. You’re Children of Pluto after all. And in the end, you’ll be twice rewarded for all the travails you endure.
Emotional vulnerability to a Pluto parent is like nudity to anyone else. The first impulse is to cover it up. This is why your mom or dad would sometimes bark at you to get over yourself or discreetly change the subject if the issue hit too close to home. Yet despite the rough handling, you never stopped trying to connect, which becomes infinitely easier with adulthood. This person knows pelfectly well that she or he didn’ t make life easy. Nevertheless hearing that said out loud will prove cathartic and bonding for you both.
It isn’t easy watching someone make many of the same mistakes you did. But you need to remember that you were just as single-minded and inflexible when you were your son’s or daughter’s age. And like you, he or she will come out on the other side of this just fine.
You two couldn’t be more dissimilar in appearance. If one of you is spiritual, the other one’s materialistic. If one of you is bookish, the other’s a jock. Yet beneath the surface you both know you have a lot in common and actually share many of the same views and opinions. In true Pluto fashion, it’s your secret.
You love your Pluto friend deeply, but you have to be in the right frame of mind to get together. You can’t help identifying with this person, and sometimes a “been there/done that” impatience creeps into your dealings with each other. When that starts, feelings are quickly stowed away, defenses go up, and the conversation comes to a standstill. But if you’re both relaxed and comfortable, it’s not unusual for you to spend days together at a time.
The greatest harm a Child of Pluto can do is to himself or herself. That would go double for you. Bearing in mind the law of diminishing returns, it might be better to skip the whole thing.
This is one of the most profitable associations you can have. When you are promoted, as you invariably will be under your Pluto boss’ aegis, make a point of turning to this person for advice. It’s the greatest expression of gratitude you could show.
Don’t be surprised by the cool distance. As long as you’re equals, the potential of one day becoming rivals is never far from your Pluto colleague’s mind.