Child Of Neptune With Child Of Pluto
Children of Pluto love mystery just as much as you. But where you will wisely accept that there are some things better left unknown, a Child of Pluto will seek to penetrate their hidden meaning. Children of Pluto are compelled to experience those things that no one will talk about openly.
The attraction is immediate and all-consuming. Your Pluto love interest is extremely intense and emotional (qualities you enjoy), but this person also tends to have a darker view of life. Moreover your Pluto love interest doesn’t suffer fools gladly. But scratch beneath the surface and you’ll find someone whose passion for life, although uncompromising, is incredibly exciting and invigorating.
Your Pluto mate relies on you for support and advice and would be lost without you. Your concern softens your mate’s hard edges, and your gentle humor eventually prevails upon him or her to see things from a different point of view. However Pluto was named after the god of the Underworld and his Children can take great comfort in dwelling on life’s underside. It keeps the infernal fires burning. Given your tendency to always make time for a loved one’s troubles, there isn’t much impetus for your mate to get over himself or herself. Commiseration isn’t the same as compassion. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is to be more economical with the water of life. That way your mate learns to consult his or her own conscience instead of always leaning on you.
Though you learned to temper your parent’s heated reactions, there’s no disputing your Pluto/Mars mom or dad has a point. Unfortunately that point can sometimes get lost due to this person’s provocative way of raising it. You may not always share the sense of moral outrage, but the reason you’re as upright as you are is because of your Pluto parent.
You draw strength from compassion while your son or daughter draws strength from outrage. In your attempt to soften life’s blows, don’t take away the survival mechanism your Pluto kid needs to withstand them. Show how the flow of emotions doesn’t stop with having been wronged but eventually (like a river to the sea) leads to forgiveness. Your little one will learn to appreciate the validity of his or her reactions, as well as the validity of someone else’s.
Hopefully you learned a long time ago not to tell your brother or sister to get over it. Those are fighting words to a Pluto sibling. For the most part this person is reasonable and can even laugh at himself or herself. But on those occasions when your Pluto sibling becomes impossibly obsessed, say something innocuous and get off the phone ASAP. Otherwise you’ll be stuck listening to this broken record all day.
Never tell your Pluto friend that everyone goes through hard times. He or she is liable to hang up on you. As a Child of Neptune, you find solace in numbers. You like knowing that others feel as you do. Children of Pluto, however, find this idea trivializing and will respond by showing you just how unlike other people they can be.
In mythology, Jupiter, Neptune, and Pluto were all brothers. Seeing as two of those three siblings also happen to be your Ruling Planets, you outrank your Pluto enemy. When your enemy gives you the chill, tell this person to go try it somewhere else.
You have a remarkable talent for getting this person to lighten up. No easy feat. You instinctually know what to say to deflate most tense situations. Your Pluto boss truly values you, more than you probably know.
Give this person plenty of space. Once obsessed with a job or deadline, there’s no talking to you Mars/Pluto colleague until it’s in the bag.