Child Of Mars With Child Of Neptune
A Neptune Child is very good at getting you to examine someone else’s side of a dispute. Though not always willing to give up a gripe, you eventually come around to seeing that there might be good reason for why others act the way they do. A Child of Neptune deepens your view of life and yourself.
A Neptune love interest almost always enters your life through the back door. There will be something clandestine about the two of you being together. One of you may be separated or in the process of getting a divorce. You could work for rival companies. Or you may come from wildly different backgrounds. Obviously this only fuels the ardor and intensity. Nevertheless at some point you are going to have to sit down and figure out the logistics of a future together. This may require an enormous sacrifice for both of you.
Prospects improve the longer you are together. Because you met during a time of emotional or financial stress, it’s easy to believe things will always be this way. They won’t. In time you’ll surmount the obstacles and create a very solid foundation. Hardship brings you closer. Believe it or not, part of you will miss it when it’s gone.
Your Neptune parent’s tendency toward gloom and doom may have gotten on your nerves growing up. As far as you were concerned your mom or dad was much too willing to throw in the towel. Yet instead of undermining your confidence, these expressions of futility made you even more driven to win. This actually rekindles your parent’s faith and optimism, although you may be the last to hear about it.
The most important thing you can teach your kid is that dreams really can come true, but it’s up to your kid to make them happen. Neptune Children tend to assume that real life will never live up to what they can conceive of in their imaginations. By empowering your kid at an early age, he or she will learn that dreaming a dream is just the first step in a creative process. The rest is in trying to find a way to make it a reality.
A continual source of inspiration. Perhaps it was your brother’s or sister’s quiet strength in the face overwhelming obstacles; maybe it was simply this person’s very unique and rich view of life, in any case your Neptune sibling was responsible for showing you that there’s more to people (and life) than what you see on the surface.
You love to get this friend’s “take” on things. It’s always unique and insightful. It may frustrate you how your Neptune friend can be so talented yet leave so much of that potential untouched. But when you begin to see how truly rich and diverse this person’s inner life is you’ll be amazed that he or she is able to develop half the things on tap.
Chances are this person is already his or her own worst enemy. You don’t need to do anything other than steer clear.
It’s always hard to figure out exactly how a Child of Neptune got to a position of authority. These types of bosses often come across as being hopelessly scattered and more than just a little clueless. However appearances can be deceiving. This person must have done something right to have gotten this far. Look and listen and you may learn a thing or two about how to get things done without having to show your hand.
If your Neptune colleague is truly inspired, then you couldn’t find a better role model. This person is so gifted and talented that everyone is in awe. This is someone who could truly transform the profession. However, if he or she is uninspired, then the complaining can get a bit much. You’ll have to learn how to tune this person out.